2025 is the year to get in touch with your femininity and your feminine energy. Here are 10 tips to getting in touch with your femininity from a boudoir photographer…
ONE: Do a boudoir session. There’s nothing more feminine that dressing down to your intimates and having every curve in your body beautifully photographed. You’ll feel so empowered, confident, sexy, and feminine.
TWO: Devote one day a week to self care. Start with an everything shower and dry brush before you shower, double wash your hair, exfoliate and moisturize your skin, oil your scalp, shave, tweeze, wax, and pluck. Cleanse, exfoliate, tone, and moisturize your face. Give yourself or go get a mani-pedi for your nails. Wash your sheets so you go to bed in fresh clean sheets. Journal to soft music (I like Spanish Guitar on Spotify) and ambient lighting.
THREE: Dance in the rain. The next rain storm I want you to go out in your back yard and just dance in the rain. Smile, laugh, let the rain fall all over you, dance and let go.
FOUR: Invest in lingerie and a silk robe then wear it every evening. If you have children and don’t want to walk around the house in lingerie, cover up with your robe or wait until it’s tome fro everyone to retire to bed and then lounge around in your bedroom in your sexy lingerie and robe. Give yourself ambient light and soft music and journal or read.
FIVE: Wear perfume to bed. Get a signature bedtime scent and keep a perfume bottle on your night stand. Each night before you slip into your sheets spritz on some perfume to feel sexy and feminine even when you sleep.
SIX: Invest in yourself. Take the time to put time and effort into yourself, if you don’t have the time, make time. You can even get up earlier to find the time. Each day fix your hair, apply makeup even if it’s just mascara, blush, and a lip gloss. Put on something you feel confident in don’t just throw on any old thing. Invest in comfy but nice lounge clothes so on days you want to be comfortable you still look and feel put together. Pamper yourself with beauty treatments, get mani/pedis, enjoy a facial and/or a message. You can look for places that are inexpensive to do these treatments at.
SEVEN: Wear sexy lingerie or matching bra and panties under your clothes. Want a pick me up? Wear a sexy little secret under your clothes to feel confident and sexy all day long.
EIGHT: Soft light and ambient music in your home makes a difference. During the day I play French Jazz on Spotify while I work, clean, or lounge and read. At night I light my home with only lamp or candle light and play Spanish Guitar on Spotify so I can unwind and relax. It’s made my home peaceful, helps relax my mind, and removes the clutter and noise from my thoughts.
NINE: Get out in nature. Go for long walks out in nature alone and connect with Mother Earth. Be mindful, be observant, and take in the beauty that Mother Earth has given us with the foliage and fauna.
TEN: Learn to let go and just be. Learn the art if becoming unbothered and letting go of stress and stressful people and situations. Remove yourself from toxic or stressful environments and strive to be in an environment of peace and let it all go….
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